Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy."
by JoshLubens


Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy."

Next, he went in for the kill. But a few seconds later, he went belly up as she flattened his ego into a pancake.

He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.

Maybe you've had a similar experience? I've had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words "I'm the world's biggest loser" push pinned to my forehead.

If you don't know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.

Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone - and girls know this, my friend.

Half the time, even if you find them less attractive than the stench of foot and ass combined, they'll still genuinely believe you're hitting on them.

But this, my friend, is about to change...

Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.

He may still have some fight in him. But, alas, he doesn't have a chance. (However, if she sees him as a piece of female eye-candy, there may be a glimmer of hope.)

I'm also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.

They start chomping away at the bait and, then, bam - they're on my hook and I'm reeling them in.

Let me give you an example. If I'm at a nightclub, I may stand in a crowed area - maybe near the bar or ladies restroom. As a woman walks by I'll stick out my elbow making it inevitable that she'll bump into it.

And then I'll bark, "Ow... you hurt me."

A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, "I'm so sorry."

I'll tease, "You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke."

This emotionally hooks the woman into an interaction with you.

For most men, when a piece of T&A origami fills their groin with lust, their mind starts thinking of ways to win her over.

Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.

With my example above, however, I'm doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I'm making her prove herself to me. I'm the sought after Prize, not her.

Here's a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can't chase each other at the same time.

You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.

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